Anonymous: I take my faith very seriously. I won't have sex before marriage and I really want a Christian man who believes the same. That said, I'm not little! It seems like whenever I make a connection with a Christian man it doesn't go beyond friendship. I know most Christian men I've met are into skinny girls, but there have to be some Christian men that like a fat chick like myself! Or are there? Do Christian FA's exist, or am I doomed to die single like Paul?
Who’s Paul? I’ve never used Christianmingle.com but can anyone speak to the number of men on it who state a BBW preference? (Also legit serious question, do fewer men on a religious dating site harass women than on OKC/POF? I’d really like to know). That said, with all respect to your religious beliefs, you might want to widen your search beyond guys who haven’t had sex yet (I’m an ignorant Jew so honest question #2: are the majority of Christian men still pledging this?) and just look for partners with who share your Christian beliefs. I know it happens but it seems unlikely to me that you’ll have many choices of guys looking for specific physical traits like fatness while ignoring their own physical desires. Feel free to ignore my own secular two cents, but something’s gotta give. I’m rooting for whatever path makes you not alone.